This one’s for the new parents out there: At some point during your parenthood, you’ll decide it’s a good idea to try to make your own pickles with your children. Maybe you and the kids planted a little starter garden and you got a bumper crop of cucumbers that you don’t know what to do with. Most likely, you’ll see an article in a glossy parenting magazine that declares making pickles is the easier than making toast and including your children in the process will guarantee hours of quality family time that will spark long-lasting love and admiration from your children. This article will subtly imply that when you’re too old to take care of yourself, your children will recall the day you helped them make their own pickles and be so overwhelmed with joy and love that they’ll build you an in-law suite complete with a Jacuzzi and on-call masseuse.
In this article, there will be a big two-page photo spread photo of a beautifully multi-cultural family laughing and looking gorgeous while making pickles in their brightly lit kitchen. You will hate that family in that picture because their countertops aren’t covered in stacks of art projects (which are actually, accidentally glued to your countertops so why bother trying to sort them?) and three weeks worth of mail that you haven’t gotten a chance to look through yet. But still, you think, “hey, that looks like fun. We should make pickles.”
But listen, it’s a trap. See how that family in the magazine is smiling? There won’t be any smiling when you do your pickle project. One kid will throw a shit fit because you cut the pickles in the wrong shape (“I said trapezoid!”) and the other will refuse to wash her hands and decide she has to lick every cucumber before it goes into the jar.
And then there’s the recipe. The one in the magazine calls for ingredients like dill, or garlic, or saffron. You don’t have dill or saffron because when you go to the grocery store, you can barely make it out of there with milk and eggs before your kids pee on the floor or lick all of the free cheese samples. Saffron is for people who shop without kids. Forget about saffron.
It doesn’t matter anyway, because your kids have their own idea about what sort of ingredients should go in the god damned pickle jar. Shit like sticks and action figures. I’m not kidding. This will happen. One of your kids will try to slip an action figure into the pickle jar. You’ll be so fatigued by the end of the pickle project that you won’t care. You’ll just close the lid on the jar and set the cucumbers and tiny construction man action figure in your fridge to age.
Oh, and your house will smell like fucking pickles for the next six hours.
Consider yourself warned.
Ha! I just made pickled carrots for the first time and the four year old would only come into the kitchen with his nose covered and only to ask me “what is that awful smell?”. .Maybe when he is 6 and the twins are 4 I will try to get them involved with pickling…. or maybe not
I love all your posts LOL!
Thanks for reading!
I wish you were MY dad!!! Pickled action figures sounds FUN!
Making pickles is a thoroughly unpleasant process. Canning other foods is fine, but pickles? Nasty.
I’m sorry you got educated.
this post should be included as mandatory reading in all sex ed classes for the reality that is parenting. haaaaalarryous
We attempted Halloween themed cake pops today. Holy god, the fighting. And whining. And vodka needing.
I hear you Melanie. I hear you.
Really. Action figures in a jar. Delicious. Not even kidding. The rock-solid plastic and the taste of chemicals that will leave you ready to let in any major sickness into your body. 😀 Delicious!!!